Call `get_row_group_column_bloom_filter` in parallel

[xanderbailey]

Whilst working on #2398 we realized that calling get_row_group_column_bloom_filter in a loop isn't optimal.

DataFusion also does it the same way https://github.com/apache/datafusion/blob/55.0.0/datafusion/datasource-parquet/src/opener/mod.rs#L1266-L1292

https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/8462/changes has merged so we should follow up to improve this implementation.

[xanderbailey]

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